Here is a list of
Frequently Asked Questions to help you know me a little better!
1. My family is planning on
supporting me through labor, why do I need a doula?
Your doula is not there to replace your loved ones; but to
provide support to all of you, this is an emotional experience for everyone!
Your doula supports you and your loved ones by bringing drinks, food, relief and
moral support during your labor. She can help your partner become more
involved by making suggestions and helping with position changes.
Additionally, your doula may be the only continuity of care you have. You
may have more than one nurse or the on-call care provider instead of your own.
Research
indicates that the more labor support a woman receives and the better its
quality, the greater is its favorable impact.
2. If I am planning on having an
epidural, why do I need a doula?
You will still need emotional and
informational support even with your physical pain decreased. Once a woman
receives an epidural, her partner can take a break, get a snack or perhaps
some much needed rest. Some women are unable to nap after receiving an
epidural, and a doula will stay by your side, keeping you connected with your
progress and helping you cope with any side-effects you may experience.
3. What kind of training &
certification do you have?
I have been trained by the Seattle
Midwifery School as a Birth Doula and Childbirth Educator. I am a current
member of DONA and PALS, and am a Certified Doula through both organizations.
4. Do you have a backup doula in
case you are not available when I need you?
Currently I am only taking one
client a month, and most likely will not need a back-up. However, back-up
arrangements can be made, and I am happy to discuss the options with you.
5. What is your fee and payment policy?
My fee is based on travel distance
and your ability to pay; within a range of $300-$600. All of my services are included in one flat fee regardless
on how many hours I am with you. Before you hire me I chat with you on the
phone, and also offer a free personal interview with you and any others you may
want present. Once you decide to hire me, I collect a retainer fee equal
to half
of your total fee, to secure you on my calendar. This retainer is NON-refundable in the
event that you cancel at anytime. The balance of your fee is due by your
38th week of pregnancy. If you think you will be unable to pay the entire balance due at
that time, we can make payment arrangements in advance.
6.
What types of home visits does your fee include?
I offer 2 pre-natal and 2
post-partum visits in your home. The first pre-natal visit we will go over our
written agreement, your birth preferences, any
childbirth education questions you might have, and discuss what you want my role
to be. The second visit will be more hands-on, practicing coping
techniques, trying out the birth ball, and showing your partner massage and
other skills helpful for you in labor. The first post-partum visit is
usually a few days after the birth. At this visit I will try to answer any
questions you have regarding breastfeeding. If you desire, I will look at
your latch, show you different breastfeeding positions for you and your baby,
and evaluate your body mechanics. I can give suggestions to help avoid
neck, shoulder and arm strain, and show your partner simple massage techniques
to help relieve your tired muscles. I will return for the second post-partum
visit at the time of your choosing, so we can talk about your birth, and I can
answer questions on infant care, and post-partum care for mom.
7.
What is your philosophy on birth and birth support?
My philosophy on birth is this: any
way you want it. My job as your doula is one in which I support your
decisions and choices by giving you emotional support, physical support,
information and advocacy. I won't make decisions for you, and I won't
judge you for the decisions you make. Birth is an amazing process, a
journey that you will remember for lifetime and I want to help you make this the
most wonderful experience possible.
8. What do you think of birth plans?
I recommend presenting it as a list of
"preferences" instead of demands, and always with respect.
It is a good idea to talk with your Health
Care Provider each time you see her/him about your birth preferences. This
way your Provider can recognize your special needs, and have an opportunity to
give you feedback. You will quickly be able to see how he/she feels
about what you want.
Asking your Provider, "What
do you think about ______" is always a good way to begin a discussion about any
items that are important to you.
9. What is your availability for
questions and support during my pregnancy?
I am always available for questions
via phone and email. Once you hire me I will be on call for you 24 hours a
day. What this means is I carry my pager and cell phone everywhere I go.
I do not travel farther than 75 miles from my home without letting you know, and I am prepared to leave any event or
special occasion I may be attending when you call. We can also set up additional appointments, if you
need them.
10.
At what point do you get involved during labor?
I ask that you call me as soon as
you think that you are in labor, this way we can chat on the phone and I can
hear how you are doing. I will come as soon as you want me to, whether it
be to your home to help you labor there, or the birth place. I am with you
throughout the entire labor and delivery process, and I usually stay with you 2
hours after the birth to make sure you are comfortable and have everything you
need. (I can leave earlier, or stay longer depending on your needs.)
11. What is your experience,
including, length and variety?
I have been working with pregnant
women since 1999 in my massage practice, and since 2001 as a doula and
childbirth educator. I have an in-depth knowledge of the female anatomy,
including a thorough understanding of the physiology of the pelvis, and the
surrounding muscles. I have attended over 55 births, and my experiences
range from uncomplicated homebirths to emergency cesarean births. I have
helped single moms, military moms, moms and partners, moms and grandparents,
moms and husbands. I've been completely hands on, to helping the partner
give the majority of the physical comfort, to hands-off, taking notes in the
corner. I can play whatever role you desire.
12. What is your experience in
breastfeeding support?
I have been trained in breastfeeding
support as part of my Childbirth Educator Training, and have helped nearly every
mom I've "doula'd" with breastfeeding during the post-partum visit.
13. How early in advance do I need to
hire a doula?
It is a good idea to hire your doula
as soon as you can, schedules can fill up quickly. It benefits you to hire
one sooner than later, as you will have a longer period of time for you and your
doula to get to know each other. I encourage you to interview several
doulas before you decide which doula is right for you.
14. Do you offer any additional
post-partum services?
You can hire me to come into your
home and help you as needed to promote your recovery from birth, as well as:
Assisting with newborn care, breastfeeding support, performing light housework,
promoting parental bonding, facilitating, reinforcing, and supporting family
bonding through this transition.